The Truth About Wellness: Why We're All Doing It Wrong

I’m gonna say something controversial

Wellness is a scam. Not all of it, but most. And I should know—I’ve been in this industry for over 20 years. I’ve seen trends come and go, and honestly, most of them are just that: trends. They’re not sustainable, they’re not healthy, and they’re sure as hell not making us happier.

Let me tell you about last Tuesday. I was at a conference in Austin, and this so-called wellness guru was up on stage talking about ‘biohacking’ (whatever the hell that means). He was selling some $87 supplement that was gonna ‘revolutionize your life.’ I mean, come on. It’s 2023, and we’re still falling for this stuff?

I asked my friend Marcus—let’s call him Marcus, ’cause his real name is none of your business—what he thought. He said, ‘Look, I dunno, man. I tried that stuff once. Felt like I’d been hit by a truck for a week.’ Which… yeah. Fair enough.

Here’s the thing about wellness

It’s not about quick fixes. It’s not about some magic pill or potion. It’s about consistency. It’s about making small, sustainable changes that you can stick with for the long haul. And honestly, it’s about figuring out what works for you, not what works for some influencer with a six-pack and a protein shake.

I remember back in 1999, when I first started out. I was working at a tiny magazine in Chicago, and we were all about the ‘low-fat’ craze. Remember that? Turns out, fat isn’t the enemy. Neither are carbs, or gluten, or whatever else we’ve decided to demonize this week.

I talked to a colleague named Dave about this the other day. We were over coffee at the place on 5th, and he was telling me about this new diet he’s trying. ‘It’s called the… um…’ he said, ‘the something-something diet. You know, where you eat like a caveman?’ I said, ‘Dave, you’re a 45-year-old accountant. You don’t need to eat like a caveman. You need to eat like a normal human.’

Let’s talk about fitness

Oh, boy. Fitness. This is where things get really messy. I’ve seen it all—from the ‘no pain, no gain’ crowd to the ‘you can’t even walk, but here’s a CrossFit membership’ people. Look, I’m all for pushing yourself, but not at the expense of your physicaly health. And not because some Instagram model told you to.

I’ve been to too many gyms where the trainers are more concerned with their own gains than your form. I’ve seen too many people injure themselves because they thought they had to keep up with some unrealistic standard. It’s not worth it. Honestly, it’s not.

And don’t even get me started on those ‘before and after’ photos. They’re usually just a bunch of smoke and mirrors. A friend of mine, let’s call her Lisa, told me she once spent 36 hours editing her photos to look like she’d lost 20 pounds. It’s all a lie, folks.

The mental health bit

Now, mental health is where things get really personal. I’ve struggled with anxiety for years, and I know firsthand how hard it can be to find something that actually helps. But here’s the thing—I’ve also seen how the wellness industry has turned mental health into just another commodity.

You can’t ‘wellness’ your way out of a mental health issue. You can’t meditate or journal or supplement your way out of it. Sometimes, you just need help. And that’s okay. But the industry would rather sell you a $20 candle than admit that.

I was at a wellness expo a few months back, and there was this booth selling ‘chakra-balancing’ something or other. I asked the woman running it what exactly it did, and she said, ‘It helps you find inner peace.’ I said, ‘So, it’s a placebo?’ She said, ‘Well, if it works, does it matter?’ And I said, ‘Yes. Yes, it does.’

But here’s the good news

Amidst all this nonsense, there are actually some things that work. And they’re not sexy, and they’re not glamorous, and they’re not gonna make anyone rich. But they work.

Eating real food. Moving your body in a way that feels good. Getting enough sleep. Connecting with other people. Managing stress. These are the things that actually make a difference. They’re not exciting, but they’re effective.

And if you need some motivation to get started, check out sports results news today. Seeing what other people are accomplishing can be a great way to get inspired. Just don’t compare yourself to them. You’re on your own journey, and that’s okay.

So, let’s all take a step back from the madness. Let’s stop falling for the quick fixes and the magic pills. Let’s focus on what actually works. Because at the end of the day, that’s what wellness should be about.

And honestly, I’m not sure if anyone’s gonna listen to me. But I had to say it anyway.

About the Author
Sarah Thompson has been a senior editor at various health and wellness magazines for over 20 years. She’s seen it all, tried it all, and is here to tell you that most of it’s nonsense. When she’s not writing, she’s probably eating pizza and questioning life choices.

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